What Happens When Something Isn't Right...

Every once in awhile, we agree to do something or join something and then think "Maybe this isn't for me..." Well, like everything else, sometimes that's how people begin to feel about Greek Life, as much as we hate to admit it.

Out of every pledge class there are some girls who decide they don't click with their new sisters, they don't want to be apart of the Greek community, or their dues are just too much. Whatever their reason, they think they may want to drop their sorority entirely.

If you start thinking that Greek life may not be for you or you can't afford it I recommend you take the following steps.:
1. If  you are close with any of the girls in your sorority talk to them about your thoughts and feelings. They could be able to help you and if they can't then you will have at least given them some warning about your potential decision. I emphasize talking to them even if there's no chance of you changing your mind, how would you feel if you were continuing your day-to-day life and one of your best friends just stopped coming around?
2. Talk to your organization's president or membership chairman. They might be able to ease your fears or help you work out some of the issues you may be facing.
3. If money is part of or the main problem, talk to your chapter's treasurer. She may be able to work out a plan with you so you do not have to drop. Be sure to talk to her before you are way behind in dues. If you are struggling to meet the first month but get it worked out that's okay, but if the struggle is a month to month thing then it's best to meet with her sooner rather than later.

If after these steps you still feel that you don't belong then you should make your own decision. Below I have a couple of sites that give you some more insight into dropping and the experiences of other girls who have had the same feelings.

HerCampus: Pros and Cons of Dropping Out of a Sorority

The Eighty8: My Sorority Experience

The Odyssey Online: If You're Thinking About Dropping Your Sorority, Don't Give Up Just Yet

Recruitment: Bid day!!!!

Today's the day! You get to receive and open your bid which is the beginning to a

lifetime of sisterhood. Bid day is what makes the last few stressful days worth it but, it's full of excitement which may be a bit overwhelming in your tired state.

Each chapter has different types of Bid Day celebrations but each one is full of meeting new sisters and bonding with other members through various activities. These festivities can include games, food and gifts for the new members.

In order to best prepare you for Bid day I'm going to include some videos that feature activities and the run to your new sisters.

University of Tennessee- Panhellenic Bid Day 2014

Tulane University- Chi Omega Bid Day 2014

Auburn University- Zeta Tau Alpha Bid Day 2014

Another important event on Bid day is finding out what chapter your Recruitment Counselor belongs to! This is exciting for both you and her. You finally get to stop guessing and she can finally return home to her sisters after being disaffiliated. If your school allows it, like mine does, there will be girls from her chapter there to welcome her home. This could be her best friends, her big, or her little!

Bid day is huge for you, your new sisters, and your recruitment counselors! Relax, have fun and enjoy!